If a person experiences sexual fantasies, we can say that this person has a high libido. This peculiarity shows itself especially brightly among women: those women, who more often give in to sexual fantasies, have more powerful sexual desire and get more sexual pleasure. Women, who give themselves up to sex fantasies during excitement, have more possibilities to experience orgasm.
So, if you imagine Angelina Jolie near you during sex with your wife, do not feel hard pangs of conscience, cause, possibly, your better half is with Brad Pitt at present. Don’t worry and don’t disturb them. Women have sex fantasies during sexual intercourse as often as men do.
What does it show? Don’t think that a woman is unhappy with a man, just because someone else is present in her fantasies. The fantasy helps a woman to intensify arousal. A woman can be satisfied with a man in all senses; however, fantasy increases power of orgasm and feeling of pleasure.
What women and men see in their sex fantasies:
1. Men are susceptible to imagine themselves with a great number of sexual partners at the same time. In their fantasies, they do love to change partners, while women in their fantasies, on the whole, stay with the only partner, although exceptions exist.
2. Men in their sex fantasies focus on a certain kind of sexual activity or parts of the body. Women, often have difficulty ordering their fantasies. Those are just bright feelings without any details. Women’s fantasies almost always get by without visualization of partner’s genitals. Women in their fantasies concentrate on their emotional reaction on any partner’s actions. They seldom can describe it, however, they give detailed description of their image, right up to clothes. Women, also, gladly describe feelings, which were caused by a fantasy.
3. A characteristic trait of women’s fantasies is their romantic furnishing: island, sea, wood, exotic flowers, waterfall, moon light and so on. Many women mention, besides, freedom of any external irritants as a mobile phone, for example, and so on.
Women often imagine themselves passive participants of sexual intercourse. However, that doesn’t mean that women dream how men take them by force. In women’s fantasies of this kind, a man should usually apply effort only to break woman’s resistance, and then behave gently, as women like, they don’t like rudeness.
5. Women’s fantasies more emotional, they reflect woman’s desire to be near devoted, caring partners. Men more often see themselves in fantasies with a few women, with strangers, who come and leave. In spite of the fact that women see in their fantasies some Brad Pitt, in actual fact, features of her husband or beloved are present in this image – only, so to speak, in Brad Pitt’s shell.
6. Women have bisexual fantasies more often than men do, since they have sexual curiosity towards the both genders.
7. Women’s fantasies seldom have any fetishes. If a woman wants new shoes very much, then her fantasy doesn’t turn into sex area, and just becomes limited to shopping.
How can you use sexual fantasies? Share with each other your sex fantasies, cause it will help you to realize some of them in reality. If you know about sexual fantasies of each other, you can make a surprise for your partner, realizing her/his fantasy.
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Leaves of Epimedium brevicornum – it’s an herbaceous plant – can become a raw material for production of preparation against erectile dysfunction. According to words of Italian scientists, a new remedy will have the same effectiveness, as Viagra has, however with less quantity of side effects. Researchers under the leadership of Mario Dell’Agli from a university of Milan studies four plants, which are used in Africa as aphrodisiacs. It turns out that a component of Epimedium brevicornum called icariin can blockade ferment phosphodiesterase -5 (FDE-5), which controls blood supply of the penis.
The same principle – blockage of FDE-5 – is the basis of Viagra working. Experimenting with an extract of icariin, Mario Dell’Agli and his colleagues got modified version of that substance, which is not inferior in effectiveness to Viagra. At the same time, the new “remedy” turns out to be safer, that the popular preparation. The thing is that an active component of Viagra blockades not only phosphodiesterase -5, but other phosphodiesterases too.
Any man can prolong his life, marrying to a woman, who’s significantly younger than he is, German researchers believe. It was found out, in the course of a research, that a risk of premature death is five times less if men marry women 15-17 years younger. If a man marries a lady 7-9 years younger, the risk of a premature death is 11 percent less.
However, if a man marries a woman older than he is, then, it’s the most possible, he won’t become a long-lived-person. Also, scientists examined dependence of women’s lifespan on a husband’s age, and it turns out, that in this case, interconnection is somewhat different. Whether a lady marries a young man or an elderly man – it’s not important for her lifespan.
Why do residents of south countries are believed hot lovers? As Britain scientists found out, the point is the sun. In sunny days many men feel themselves a macho, but in dull days they are not capable of “exploits.” Due to that experts recommend to have sex in the daytime, when there is more light.
Britain scientists made a survey, which became a basis of a research, devoting to search for presence or lack of connection between sex and dull time of twenty-four hours.
While sexologists looked for the connection between sex and ultraviolet, otolaryngologists made another, more amusing observation. They found a connection between sneezing and sexual fantasies. So, if a man sneezes on the date, possibly, he hasn’t got a cold at all, but just dreams about further development of the date.
Israeli specialists from European Society for Sexual Medicine under the leadership of Yoram Vardi from the Medical Center Rambam (Haifa) believe that impotence can be treated with ultrasound. Twenty men suffering from erectile dysfunction caused by a breaking circulation of the penis took part in an experiment. All participants took two three-week courses of treatment.
Twice per week those men was treated by ultrasonic impulse therapy. During those courses of treatment low power ultrasonic impulses were brought for a few minutes to different areas of the penis. As a result it turns out that sexual function of 15 men became better. Besides, scientists recorded no side effects.
At the age of 42-45, a man achieves an important psychological and physiological level. It’s an age when a man has achieved a certain social status and now main efforts are spent on their maintaining.
This period is waited by not only men, but by women, who have husbands older than women are. Will be able a husband to preserve sexual activity on the former level?
The first delusion: a man older than 40, taking up an important post and devoting the most part of his life to his work, shouldn’t even dream about a sexual longevity. No way! Sexologists maintain the contrary: the higher social status of a man, the more active he is in bed. He is not only sure of himself (it naturally keeps up sexuality), but, as a rule, follows a healthy way of life. The last researches, made in the USA, showed that social status of a man has greater importance for preserving of sexual activity, than general state of health. Departure from business, as a rule, becomes fatal for a man.
The second delusion: mature men need to change sexual partners oftener for sexual activity stimulation. Science showed that new relationships give men only troubles. A man gets used to a certain way of a relationship, a way of sexual communication. Change of a sexual partner is a real stress for such a man. Novelty, exciting in youth, now causes a subconscious fear of failure suffering with a new partner. Add to that, that only one woman from a hundred can get a real pleasure from the first sex. A sum of those negative factors disturbs a man to get a desired pleasure, and stress from failures accumulates, suppressing sexual power.
The third delusion: duration of sexual life of a man depends on a size of his genitals. Sexual constitution doesn’t depend on size of genitals. Here, working of the hormonal system is important in the first instance. And there is no connection between working of hormones and size of genitals.
The fourth delusion: it’s possible to defer dying down of sexual function using special hormonal preparations. Take no hormonal preparations without a doctor’s prescription (for prevention). Yes, shortage of sexual hormones is treated by testosterone preparations, however, it’s made only after making certain examinations and testes (under monitoring of a specialist). We want to say to those men who rely on artificial deferral of libido dying down, that the majority of researches shows that shortage of male hormones doesn’t always cause male menopause.
On the contrary, androgenic failure (shortage of male sexual hormones) isn’t always accompanied with dying down of sexual function. And one more interesting fact from this area, which, we hope, will stop admirers of a prophylactic hormones swallowing. A famous biologist Alan Fisher, experimenting with testosterone, injected this hormone in the brain of a male-rat, thus counting to cause a powerful sexual arousal. Imagine his surprise, when instead of attraction that rat got a maternal instinct – he didn’t copulate with a placed nearby female-rat, he began minding her!
The fifth delusion: impotence and male menopause are the same thing. Impotence and male menopause are not connected with each other. As it’s well known, impotence can be:
- psychological (cause by failure with a certain woman);
- organic (appears because of blood vessels blockage or shortage of hormones and so on).
Impotence may arise in any age. Lots of men experience male menopause absolutely calmly. Dying down of sexual function goes quietly and imperceptibly. About a half of men, older than 70, can have sex. Men with powerful sexual constitution save a high level of sexual activity until old age and even capable of fertilization. The bright example is Charlie Chaplin.
The sixth delusion: impotence is the end of a man’s sexual life. Don’t perceive impotence (especially early impotence) as a sentence. It’s necessary to undergo treatment. A modern medicine can help to prolong sexual life for a long enough period.
Psychological impotence can be treated on your own. Since sex is the only pairs’ process from physiological acts of a human, then its success depends on the both participants. Sometimes it’s enough to find another partner with more suitable temperament – and problems will go by themselves. If you have more serious psychological problems, you can consult a psychologist.
Organic impotence is treated by andrologist – it’s a male doctor, joined in himself sexual pathologist, urologist, venereologist, and even psychoneurologist.
Until recently men dealt with impotence using preparations, containing prostaglandins of a group E. Erection, because of taking those preparations, appears by itself, without a presence of a sexual object. Such a phenomenon is known as “priapism” (from the name of an ancient Greek deity Priap, always depicted with a large penis). A drawback: because of long taking such preparations, priapism can really arise. Somewhat gently Viagra effects – erection arises only in presence of a sexual object. Viagra has an effect during 4 hours.
And all the same the most effective way of solving problems with organic impotence is a penis prosthetics. Modern models of penis prosthetics – unlike the first samples – are not always in an erection state. In the basis of more perfect prosthetics hydraulic constructions are. No woman will guesses about presence of such a prosthetic if a man doesn’t tell about that. Despite high enough price of those prosthetics ($4000-$4500) lots of men are sure, that “The game is worth the candle” – about 30 thousand of operation are carried out annually.
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Mayor of Chilean city Lo Prado Gonzalo Navarette Munoz announced about free distributing of Viagra for men elder 60 years. In this way, he hopes to improve a quality of sexual life among elderly citizens, BBC informs. Viagra pills will be given four times per month. According to Navarette, all interested in taking Viagra will be able to get it after a doctor’s consultation.
The pills will be given out in the clinics in the near days, a mayor informed. At present, about 1500 men are interested in the free preparation. According to the mayor’s words, numerous complaints of elderly men influenced on the decision about the free distribution of Viagra. They complain about unsatisfactory sexual life, when he was working as a doctor.
In the case if the practice turns out successful, it can be shared in the whole country, he believes. Meanwhile, opponents of a mayor recognize, that the novel program will be cost 20.000 $ per year for a budget of city. In their opinion, a true aim of the program is to strengthen Navarette ‘s authority in impending election.
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In the course of a research, scientists found out that a frequent using a seat warming causes blood stagnation in the prostate and genitals.
It can cause a chronic prostatitis and even adenoma. Spermatozoids suffer for a warming too – they become weak, their viability and speed decrease. Danger waits for health of a driver and after coming out from a car because of difference of temperatures – risk of inflammatory processes increases. That concerns both men and women. Besides, lengthy immobility has negative consequences for a male sexual function and health on the whole of the both men and women.
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Australian researchers found out that a harmless and not having side effects preparation from the plant, which grows almost in all countries of the world, helps to normalize potency. Such properties greek trigonella has. This annual fabaceous plant is often added into the famous sauce carry. For this research 60 healthy men (25-50 years old) were invited. All participants got a preparation of trigonella twice per day during one and a half month. Then, with a special scale, libido was measured in the middle of the experiment and at the end of it. The level of testosterone was 30 percents higher, than in the beginning of the research. That result almost all participants had. Participants of a control group taking placebo didn’t notice any changes, and a few men even declared about lowering of libido. According to researchers, such an effect from taking trigonella is caused by substances of trigonella stimulating production of male sexual hormones.
Erectile dysfunction is not a disease of older men anymore. We have a new type of men suffering from ED – those are young enough guys (about 20 years old) who’s addicted to internet porn.
Actually, watching porn is normal…however if you do it 24 hours a day, that’s a real problem which can cause ED. Women watch porn too, however, not so often as men do. They prefer to buy a new expensive handbag or something like that, men, on the contrary, are more visual.
Marnia Robinson, an ex- corporate lawyer, reported in “Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunction” that erectile dysfunction may be caused by excess porn watching, cause it cause over-stimulation of dopamine. It’s neurotransmitter which causes a body’s reaction to the pleasure a man gets from porn watching. That force men to watch porn over and over again and that dependence is getting stronger every day. A man needs more factors and feeling in order to get horny during sex with a woman. Lots of young men don’t think that their problems are caused by it. They are sure that problem is a low level of testosterone or something like that. But they have an addiction and as every addicted person denies it.
Internet porn addicts are different from usual porn addicts, cause the first ones don’t go to the strip bars, they don’t buy porn movies, they have tons of porn and even isolate themselves from the outer world. So, if you watch porn from time to time this article is not about you and you, probably, don’t have the problem with internet porn addiction. We are talking about people who watch it all day long and can’t without it. Such people usually have loveless marriage or don’t have relationship.
In order to try to find out if you are an internet porn addict, answer these questions:
-Do you watch it a few hours per day?
-Are you becoming more depressed and anxious?
-Do you ignore friends, family and responsibility?
-Do you lie about what you do on the Internet?
-Do you become irritable when Internet use is disrupted?
-Do you wait when you can use the Internet again and take pleasure when you can use it?
Answer to yourself honestly, cause it’s very important to answer those questions honestly and it’s really difficult to confess yourself that you have an addiction. And it doesn’t matter if it’s internet porn addiction or something else.
If your bf or a husband is addicted to internet porn, you may notice that he lost interest to you, wants less sex with you, intimacy withdraws somewhere. He may prefer spending time alone than with you, he may avoid spending time with family and so on.
There are ways out of that addiction, however it’s really difficult to quit. We can give you 3 suggestions:
- An addict needs to see the problem. It’s the first task. If you don’t understand that you have a problem you won’t be able to solve the problem.
- Be ready that you will be depressed, anxious, impulsive and feeling flu-like.
- Don’t hesitate to ask for help. It’s may be help of friends, doctors or people who had or have the same problem.